The Zombie of Expectations....

Today morning I was watching a movie about a Married couple 😄, separated but brought together by fate to survive together for a month😜. During their arguments with respect to expectations…a wise old much married man interrupted and said like a wise Mentor “ why not to have expectations from each other? You must rather have them”. I was gobsmacked and re-enlightened😜…..People are indeed not wrong to have expectations🙆, but which we have to supress because of various circumstantial reasons and so called sane suggestions of repressing them….rather We must stopping hiding them under the carpet. Basically Give up….and move around like a supressed Zombie of expectations.....Gossshhhhh

We inherited expectations in our DNA from the moment “Go”. The moment Human Race was born it expected the nature to provide for them and Nature in lieu expected them to take care of it, the equilibrium was disturbed when Nature’s expectation were not met. The moment a child is born or even before, he expects us to be taking Good care of him, since it was our decision and not his or her to land in our lives.

So why can’t Marriage be treated as a new born baby? Who just landed 2 people, usually understandably or willingly, in an unknow zone of adventure and discovery, having a singular Goal of attaining so called “Matrimonial Bliss”, and both having individual expectations and needs. I feel even if independent, in a marriage expectations are Interdependent and require interdependent mediums to fulfil them, which must be expected and accepted.

I always feel, the time we spend on persuading ourselves to not have expectations and then sulking over about not conveying them, in the dome of our greatness….we should rather have them and work on fulfilling them together.  

Expectation are a complete normal human phenomena, trust me guys it is completely sane to have them ...and you know what we all have them built-in, super automated, insanely indulgent.....just for the sake of respecting, following a herd mentality that we actually end up just don't revealing them.

"don't have expectation life will become easy" 😜really😡???? And as a matter of fact Don't we spend more distressful time and energy in suppressing them...don't we…..

I think those who don't have them have already stopped Living uhhhmmmm nothing to look forward tooooo guess too saintly for me🙈🙉🙊.... 

Expectations conveyed are far better saviour then repressed one’s. No matter how unrealistic and weird expectations are ...Trust me once conveyed, it can always be worked around a mutual ground and be converted to interdependent expectations…..Guy’s better than a Volcano of supressed nuclear Bomb of expectations, which when goes off ….leaves nothing worthwhile to be salvaged…..besides Wish we had!!!

Irony is that People by saying ”don’t have expectations” are they themselves not expecting you to understand and follow what they said….Knock Knock!!!!  better late then never….Be A Rebel🙋